Blog - What’s the real cost of doing it all alone?

June 4, 2025

In Italian culture, there are a few things we take almost as gospel:

• that Italian food is the best in the world,

• that the sea in Sardinia puts even the Fiji Islands to shame,

• and that no country can match Italy’s art and cultural heritage.

And then there’s this: a “good entrepreneur” is someone who — with courage, optimism, and total dedication — throws themselves into the business for the good of all.

But is that really true? And more importantly — what’s the cost?


Small business in Italy: a historic model 

In Italy, small and medium-sized enterprises (SMEs) have long been seen as the backbone of the economy. Back in the '80s and '90s, their widespread presence was seen as a good sign — a grassroots model of success tied closely to local communities, personal connections, and social capital.

Out of that came a distinct type of entrepreneur: someone who builds through hard work and relationships, with a strong sense of purpose — and often a healthy dose of resilience and adaptability.


A work culture that takes over 

As highlighted in the book L’imprenditore e il suo altro (Loperfido, 2022), this business culture helped shape a unique entrepreneurial identity, especially in Italy’s so-called “Third Italy” — regions where the family business becomes the center of life. Here, the entrepreneur is seen as fully self-reliant: someone who handles everything alone, competes fiercely, and never backs down.

While this mindset once fueled growth and prosperity, it can now lead to burnout — especially when the line between personal and professional life disappears.


The human cost of self-reliance 

In family-run SMEs, personal relationships are everything. But when work depends entirely on family or close friends, everyday tensions don’t stay at work — they follow you home.

That becomes especially dangerous in times of crisis. The entrepreneur can feel completely alone. And when things go wrong, they’re not just afraid of failure — they feel like they’re letting down their family, employees, and entire community.


Time to rethink - not reject - the model 

Take the Veneto region, for example: between 2013 and 2015, it saw the highest suicide rate in Italy linked to economic hardship. That’s a sobering reminder of how even a “successful” model can become unsustainable.

But rather than reject it or idealize it, we need to see it for what it is — something that worked in a particular time and place, brought real value, but now needs to evolve.


A new generation, a new mindset 

Today’s younger generations view work differently. More and more, people want an identity that’s not just tied to their job. “This is what I do — not who I am” sums up a cultural shift that challenges traditional views of fulfillment.


Toward a more human business culture 

We don’t need to give up on the idea of the committed, capable entrepreneur. But we do need to build a new model — one where it’s okay to ask for help, to delegate, to take care of yourself.

A sustainable economy needs sustainable entrepreneurs — and a culture that recognizes the value of boundaries, mutual support, and collaboration.


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